The initiation is a long process and not easy at all. In general, in the man, it goes from 14 until near 30.
Women and men have complementary minds, that is, the mind of man has qualities that the woman mind doesn’t have and the woman mind has qualities that the mind of man doesn’t have.
So, some points about men and women:
Men – give birth to ideas
Women – give birth to human beings
About the evolving part:
Men – evolve meditating, reflecting, staying in silence
Women – evolve chatting
About the focus:
Men – be well-succeeded
Women – being mom
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