The main point to talk about self-esteem is that the contact with bad people and losers is just disgrace.
People who failed in life has nothing of good to add to you! That is why is important that you move away from these people, because the living with sad people and environments of people who doesn’t struggle in life end up affecting you and the result is a drop in self-esteem.
Most people fail in life and they fail because instead they went to study, to practice, to acquire character, they choose by the opposite. And these people will show a horrible vision of world for you.
What you must have in mind, it is that this is a horrible vision of world, it is not that life is bad, it is that these loser people, are reaping what they planted. This doesn’t mean that life is bad! The life of these people is bad, not life itself. And the life of these people is bad because they chose for this.
So, don’t let yourself to be led by these frustrated people! Move away from them.
Forgiveness
This topic is extremely important and if you want to have self-esteem you need to learn to practice it, that is the forgiviness!
Forgiving someone is to put the harm that this person did to you in the past!
Forgiving someone is not accepting the person back in your life!
So, you can forgive someone and accept this person back in your life or forgive and keep distance from her/him, this is not problem at all.
When we don’t forgive who harmed us, we continue remembering this person and the harm that was made to us and this cheer us down, this make us sick. That is why that is important to forgive people, in order that this harm that was made to you stay there in the past and not in the present anymore, in a way that in the present stay only joy and positive things.
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